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Why Embrace Change?

Updated: Sep 2, 2021

Why Embrace Change!


A better relationship with our partner can be made possible when we are willing to embrace change, experience new things and new ways! Be willing to adapt to the world that your partner brings. We have to be willing to leave our comfort zones and try new things.


People don’t necessarily like change and tend to like to stay in the world that they have surrounded themselves with. Don’t surround yourself with yourself. But we all tend to do this in order to be happy and fulfilled! But the exact opposite holds truer. To find new life, you have to lose the life you have built for yourself and embrace a new world with room for both your ideals and your new mates. Some of those habits that you have developed over your lifetime will need to change in order to move forward.


Now, I am not saying you have to lose everything you do or believe, in fact if you are leading the perfect life and you are the perfect person, then I would support not changing at all. But don’t look at your life through your lenses only. So, throwing everything you do, believe, like and stand for out the window is not the right thing. Taking a blended approach, a best practice in living for instance would be the right path. Diet, exercise, hobbies, activities, dress, friends, culture, travel, entertainment, and religion are some areas to be considered.


So, sit down with your partner and share what all you do and like and what all they do and like and be honest with one another about what works for each of you, what is a “best practice” in your lives and build a life plan between you. You do not have to “like” everything together, you can each have your own spaces and activities and you should. If you have ever seen a couple that shares very little together, you will then understand how not adapting/changing to one another early in your relationship, ends up with a life together where you each share very little. Conversely, if you have ever seen a couple that relishes their time together, sharing, and caring, then you know how that life works. Some couples do this naturally and some couples need to sit down and plan this for their future life together.


Take a walk in the woods, park or on the beach, around the block, over coffee, sitting on your patio, at the dining room table, but take time to make sure that you know your partners ideals and they know yours and try to align to them as closely as possible. This planning will help bring meaning to your relationship and help ensure a lasting, sustainable, loving relationship.


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